Nature has a way of creating people who are beautiful on the outside. They are pleasant to look at. But it's the people who are beautiful on the inside who are really attractive. Can that just happen? Sometimes, but the way we are is a function of far more than just an accident of genetics. External influences shape our inner being, for better or for worse. When young these shaping forces are unnoticed but as we grow older, and wiser, so we can start to recreate ourselves in the image we wish. It's not easy and it can take a long time but human perseverance and determination are incredibly powerful tools when focused correctly.
After all these years, I agree with you. But as an exception to very rule, sometimes, they happen I guess :-)