tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13243753178368934142024-03-20T11:12:21.160+01:00Blow away with meSophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.comBlogger79125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-72992387791763205652013-11-20T18:30:00.001+01:002013-11-20T18:30:58.166+01:00Just a littleSeems like the only thing I'm good at is disappearing. Honestly, I was sinking there for a while. I kept crying and crying and everything hurt so much. But then I went home, just for 10 days, and it inspired me to live again. Being around my dog heals me, he is the only one who has ever helped me with my depression. And talking to my sister and being taken care of by my mother helped. I came back and I am trying to live. I miss less classes, I socialise just a little more often, and I'm trying to become a better friend. It's an effort, but I think it's worth it. <div><br></div><div>I have been smoking a lot lately, I am pretty much always either rolling or smoking a joint. Honestly, I think im trying to get my schizophrenia back. Life is such a downgrade without it. </div><div><br></div><div>Also, my mac broke so please pray with me. I foolishly left it on the floor and it rained and the window was open so yeah... Have an appointment at apple on Monday. And seriously, I cannot afford another computer. I am so beyond broke. And there is nothing more exhausting than having no money. </div><div><br></div><div>Love </div>Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-63656741862352662562013-10-28T10:25:00.002+01:002013-10-28T10:25:54.165+01:00The waves I know, it's been a while. Truthfully, I completely forgot about this blog. And then something made me remember it and I went through my old posts and realized that it's nice to have some sort of diary of your life, just so you remember.<br />
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I have moved back to England a few weeks ago, and honestly, I'm finding it hard to cope. I'm all alone again and beginning to let myself go. It's 9:23 in the morning and I've already had two joints, and about to have a third one. I feel lonely and tired, and bored of my classes again. Loneliness really is the human condition. My motto in high school was 'Life's a bitch and then you die'. Looks like I wasn't so far off the truth back then after all.<br />
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I'll write again.<br />
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xoxoSophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-64114987990077161562013-03-04T21:02:00.002+01:002013-03-04T21:02:47.344+01:00Pain.I still love him. It still hurts.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-83437618226781997912013-01-18T19:15:00.001+01:002013-01-18T19:15:55.162+01:00Just make me. I'm actually starting to enjoy my job a little more but unfortunately I think I''m getting fired at the end of the month. My boss implied it. But I can't say I'm upset about that either. Honestly, I'm waiting for someone to lift that burden off me. It's so difficult to work. I feel like it kills me. It kills anything creative left inside of me. Bureaucracy is beginning to kill me. I really feel like I wasn't meant for this world. I can't work. I don't want to. Any job kills me. I simply want to stay home and write. But I can't write after 8 hours of sitting at a desk answering phone calls and making generic translations. I come back zombified. And it's all I want. To simply sit with my laptop and try to create something beautiful. I wish I could afford that.<br />
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I'm going to try and write. I have to.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-89474387247152488232013-01-05T13:04:00.000+01:002013-01-05T13:04:12.390+01:00Food and work. I used to have an eating disorder. I was bulimic with anorexic tendencies. And now I'm just fat. After I was put on medication I started eating like crazy and now I look atrocious. And the worst part is that I have no idea how to lose it, and I simply must by the summer. I am not a sporty person at all and I cant seem to go back to my old habits of not eating. In fact, as I'm writing this I'm absolutely starving. I'm always hungry. It's a disaster.<br />
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Also, I get so tired at work. After about an hour my head starts hurting and it's a pain. I'm not very able to do much at all. I'm always sleepy and tired, and I have no social life. How do I start fixing my life? Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-46839288672808553152013-01-03T17:09:00.001+01:002013-01-03T17:09:40.889+01:00Not a brand new world after all. I went to see my psychiatrist today, he said I looked sad. No big news there. The guy annoys me. He is an extremely slow talker and he never says anything new. And he loves to give examples from his personal life which frankly I dont give a shit about. The one good news is that he prescribed anti depressants for my mother, who definitely needs them more than me. As for mine, I havent been taking them and I feel just fine. Nothing's changed. I'm just as sad. Just as indifferent.<br />
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This only reminds me that it has to be me who does something. No one is going to do anything for me. When I was little I had this huge fantasy that I'd be saved by someone. It's only after my schizophrenia that I understood that that would never happen, and I have to find a way to be okay with that. This isn't Disney. Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-37696795251602027382013-01-01T07:25:00.002+01:002013-01-01T07:25:44.983+01:00Happy New Year!It's time to make plans and promises. I promise to be better, to no longer let myself fall even further. From now on I start over. And I promise to try. To give life another shot. And that's a lot for me, trust me.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-3198242393626234962012-12-28T11:33:00.000+01:002012-12-28T11:33:23.898+01:00Fuck you life. I keep asking people wether they like their jobs and to my surprise everyone does. It looks like it's just me who hates this lifestyle of 10-6. My family is out getting their nails done and I'm at work as always. Want to talk about God and justice? Neither exist. If they did, this wouldnt be my place right now. This summer I survived everything, and I was the best person I could ever be, I gave in completely and lived selflessly, and yet look at me now. Punished for God knows what, while everyone else seems to love their life. And then theres my mum who keeps telling me that this is temporary but six months at a job you hate, if not more, doesnt sound like temporary to me. It sounds like a cruel punishment. Im mad at both of them, my sister and my mother. At my sister for being happy and living life exactly the way she wants it, while I, the sick one, work and wonder the fuck I'm for, and at my mother for being so unhappy and infecting me with her bullshit too.<br />
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It's almost New Years, but I've never been less excited about it. Another day spent alone in the company of people who only make me feel more lonely. Putting on a smile, pretending to be grateful for things I could never learn to be grateful for, dancing, joking around, bullshitting.<br />
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Last night I practically cried myself to sleep. I was crying because life is a fucking bitch. It makes zero sense and yet it hurts like hell at the same time. I have to sit here for another 6 and a half hours, being someone I'm not, and waiting for nothing. I used to be a waiting person, I used to wait for everything, but its easy to stop waiting once you've stopped believing. I dont believe in a single thing about this universe, and my eyes are transparent, like my sister would say. Because theyre empty. Theyre not waiting for anything and theyre not thinking of anything. They're just there, imprisoned like him, and there's not a single person in the world on whose shoulder I could cry on. Everyone is too busy being happy. Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-131394490929706772012-12-27T17:23:00.003+01:002012-12-27T17:23:40.383+01:00Ramble ramble Day 5 without antidepressants and I'm feeling fine. I've barely changed. The tears are gone and I'm not even all that sad. Just tired. Very tired. How can they expect me to keep taking them when they destroy me? Because thats all that can destroy a writer - whatever destroys his ability to write. And I'm not giving that up. It's all I'm made of.<br />
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I'm starting to feel like my boss hates me, but maybe thats just my imagination. But I wont be surprised if I'm fired any time soon. Nor will I be upset if I speak honestly. This place almost kills me. 8 hours of continuous repetition. How do people put up with that for years?<br />
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There's less than an hour left of work so I'm just killing time. It's all I do at work. I kill my life as I wait for the clock to tick away til 6pm. And time couldnt move any slower.<br />
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I wish I could write poetry. I am fascinated by it. By the talent to organise words in an order that makes them rhyme, that leaves the edges so succinct. I attempt it of course, but my poetry is poor and useless. I wonder if it comes with practice or whether you must be born a poet. Something tells me it is the latter.<br />
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My sisters boyfriend arrived today so we'll be hanging out with him for a while. He's a smart guy but I'm no longer a smart girl. I used to be, back in the summer, when I was schizo; that's when we met. But now I'm like a downgraded version of myself. Same face, different story. 47 minutes left, can I ramble for that long? But why fill this blog with polluted text that has no purpose? Because I'm hoping that writing even such simple things will help me start writing my novel again. I keep waiting for something to hit me, a wave or a hurricane, so I can continue what I do best. So I can finish it and see whether it's worth anything.<br />
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I have a peculiar brain. According to some, I have to medicate myself against it for my entire life. But that sounds like a death sentence to me. Not being able to own your mind, just because you're not quite like everybody else. Having to suppress things that are dying to come out. Who the hell do they think they are? And how does anyone have the right to tell me that my mind is inadequate. Is schizophrenia a life sentence? Yes. Is it dangerous? Yes. Is it worth the risk? Yes. Damn whatever they say, they dont understand it. How can you unless you're in it, right? And I was in it. And it made me understand things I would have never understood before. I saved myself. I self medicated my brain against depression and understood my entire life. And although half of it was built on a fallacy, that doesnt mean that my whole argument was wrong. I got carried away, but I was just a begginer, and now I'm a veteran. I've survived the war and I'm not scared to go back in. To me, there is nothing more fascinating than a mad mind. There is so much truth hidden in the corners of someone who is completely delusional.<br />
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I met up with a friend yesterday and he told me I need to move out, and he is so spot on. My house destroys me, my family is so infected with sadness that it kills everyone around us. And maybe I'm the cause of it right now but I was only a child before and they cant hold me responsible for that. I need to move out, but that is so unrealistic right now that I cant even dream about it. I wish life was more accomodating to young people, I wish it made it easier to start your life off, but unless you have money, you're stuck where you came from, like me. But this cant last forever. One day I will pack my bags and by some miracle, leave. I will finally be alone again, with no one messing with my mind or body. Until then I am just like him, imprisoned and wishing he took me with him.<br />
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<br />Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-56885791489976282502012-12-27T11:12:00.001+01:002012-12-27T11:12:56.483+01:00From you to me. I've stopped wishing on you. Now I wish on me. Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-76251849993335389862012-12-26T10:54:00.002+01:002012-12-26T10:54:49.995+01:00Drugs or no drugs, that is the question. I've been taking anti depressants and abilify since September I think. At the beginning I didnt mind it, it didnt affect my writing. But now, I cant write for shit. And unless I finish my novel my life is going to stay this way forever: I dont know how else to get out of this. If I write a novel and somehow it ends up successful, that's my way out. If not, then maybe life isn't for me.<br />
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I was thinking about this last night and neither work nor studying appeals to me anymore. Nothing does. I want to write, but above everything I want to be able to write, and the drugs have killed it.<br />
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<br />Maybe it's a huge mistake but 4 days ago I flushed the pills down the toilet and decided to never take them again. What has followed is two nights of being overly emotional, crying for no apparent reason and a lot of cold sweating. And now I dont know what to do. If I stay on them I'll remain a futile vegetable, if I dont I risk being caught by my mother who is already suspicious and has asked me on several occassions whether I'm still taking the drugs (and we live together so its hard to hide. Today I had to pretend to take them and then spit them out later.) But either way, I dont know whether I can keep this up. She'll catch onto me soon enough. But it is my body, and there is no way in hell that I'm planning to become one of those people who take drugs for years. I wanted it to be a solution to a problem, but now that things have calmed down, I want to try on my own. I mean, whats happened really isnt the end of the world. So I cry occassionally but I dont care. Its worth it if I can start writing soon again.<br />
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But the bigger problem here is that I have no one to talk to. A few days ago my sister and I met up with a friend who used to take anti depressants, and he urged me to go off them. And I did. But he also told me that he thinks that I'm the brains of the family, and unless I get out of this, no one else in my family ever will. Im the younger sister, but Ive never felt like it. My sister relies on my guidance, not so much anymore because she's sort of rebelling, and my mother is a deeply unhappy person who suffers daily because of my depression.<br />
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I have an appointment to see my psychiatrist in mid January but do I really want to wait that long? Besides, he'll tell me not to go off them, and if he says that, my mother says that. I feel trapped and what's worse - alone. There is no one to talk to, to ask for a solution, there is just me, the brains of the family, feeling brain dead every day.<br />
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What do I do? Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-79043274345201959662012-12-24T18:50:00.002+01:002012-12-24T18:50:19.191+01:00A sad Merry Christmas. I don't even miss him. I miss me.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-14713774601906764762012-12-19T14:42:00.001+01:002012-12-19T14:42:44.985+01:00My bossA wednesday at work. No excitement. Except my boss just came to talk to me. That was interesting. She told me that if I want to succeed in this business I have to be more hands on, and she's right of course. She told me I look sad, and don't seem to enjoy the job. She's hit the jackpot there. I hate the job. If I had the means for it I'd quit today. But that's just mindless dreaming.<br />
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I wish I could have told her the truth, but she's my boss, not my best friend. I did however tell her about my schizophrenia, and that I'm on anti depressants, which is the reason apparently for why I'm so calm and asleep all of the time. I want to get off medication. That's something I have to talk to my doctor about. Except I'm scared to relapse. To fall down again. Either way, I almost felt like crying when I spoke to her. Thank god I didn't. <br />
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There's 3 hours and 20 minutes left of work. That's what I do everyday, just countdown til I cant get the hell out of here. And that's no way to live, I know that, but how can you make yourself enjoy something that you dont? And what the hell would I enjoy anyway? I could quit of course, but where else is there to go? The next place will be just as bad. If not worse.<br />
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I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. Power through I guess. Hold my breath and keep working, become more hands on, wake the hell up. What the fuck has my life come to? Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-62037609854642727622012-12-18T22:27:00.001+01:002012-12-18T22:27:18.923+01:00Ta-daaaa!I am going to try and come back to blogging.<br />
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I've been better lately,so much better. My sisters moved back home which has been tremendous help! I don't really have any friends here so I'd never been more alone as I was for the last few months. It was miserable. I went to work in the morning and sat at home after, and that was my routine. But now we go out, and do things, and I feel like a human again.<br />
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I miss him, but its different. He's no longer on my mind all day, and I no longer wait for his name to appear. I've sort of forgotten him. Let him go. But I'm still all alone. And I don't believe in it ever getting better.<br />
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Other than that, I'm now working at a real estate agency which is not too fun. But I need money so there's nothing else to do. In case I haven't explained that earlier, after everything that happened this summer I had to take a year off uni, but now I'm not even sure if I can go back next year as my family is broke and we're in a desperate situation. I hate my father for having triggered this. But whatever, cant grieve forever. I'm working and I'm doing nothing remarkable with my life. I wrote a lot of my novel in the last couple of months but now I've reached a stall. I can't write, nor do I want to. Maybe it's the anti depressants. I've become dumber. I literally cant think. Things that used to be instinct to me now feel foreign and I cant grasp them. I want to talk to my doctor about going off them but I know my family will be against it, which makes this almost impossible. But I hate being like this. If I'm not writing, I'm wasting my time. Writing is the only thing that can get me out of this.<br />
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And that's pretty much it really. I have no revolutionary ideas to share anymore. I've gone dry.<br />
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<br />Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-67254555923536704732012-11-04T18:22:00.004+01:002012-11-04T18:22:59.839+01:00My life now.I've just finished 2 new chapters of my novel so I"m before the daunting task of starting 2 new ones. The joys of being a writer.<br />
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But to update you all... I've been coming out from under depression for a while now. Things got really ugly this summer when I turned completely schizophrenic and lived delusional for 2 months. So I was naturally sent to a psychiatrist (against my will, but that was then) and I've been on medication since.<br />
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I'm much better now hence back to blogging, although actually if I'm honest I'm only doing that because I am so fucking bored of my life.<br />
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I am taking a year out from uni and staying back home with my mother, which as you can imagine, can't be fun. We are completely different people.<br />
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So I spend my days writing and dreaming, high mostly. Treatment sucks, but what can I do? This is my life now.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-39897495052753825772012-11-04T10:30:00.000+01:002012-11-04T10:30:43.696+01:00The Economist.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-21133524920255488822012-11-04T00:05:00.000+01:002012-11-04T00:05:39.677+01:00Killing me softly...Coming out from under schizophrenia is like getting a downgrade in life. I'm beyond bored, and I even miss Paris.<br />
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There's people to call now, but the only person I want to call doesn't seem to want to hear from me. And suddenly, that's all that matters.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-2295140871315176202012-07-08T00:14:00.002+02:002012-07-08T00:14:27.121+02:00Who do you call when there's no one?I just tried calling 5 friends, all in different parts of the world. Most of them were out, living life. The rest went to voicemail. And that's what my life is about.<br />
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I've left Paris, that city that killed me but not enough to end this, but unfortunately I haven't been able to leave myself behind. Clinical depression, apparently that's what I've got. And what I'm starting to realize is that as far as a veridict it goes, people still don't take you seriously. You're still able to laugh it off in conversation, to make yourself the punchline, and no one will have their heart skip a beat for you.<br />
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My family keeps asking me, what do you want us to do? That just makes me angry. Would I really say the same if any one of them was going through what I'm going through? Because what I want, no, want I desperately need, is for someone to not have to ask. It's impossible to pull someone out of the darkness without joining them there first, but no one's willing, and the only person I have left to talk to is my shrink. How sad when you're left with no other option but to pay someone to listen to you.<br />
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I could try and explain to you just how tired I am of myself but no words can do it justice. I'm hanging on, and I'm doing it for them, despite the fact that it doesn't really seem like they need it.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-65856587252886424432012-04-14T00:14:00.000+02:002012-04-14T00:14:46.888+02:00An honest update.So much to tell, so many stories. Today as I sat across the table from my friend, he held my hands and told me that he thinks that I'm incredible. His eyes told me something else. That fine line between friendship and love. I've lost it so long ago. I can never tell what's real and what isn't. I dream too much. Reality eventually becomes a blur.<br />
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Did I ever tell you there is three of us? It's not just two girls, but there's a boy too. He is beautiful, blonde, and has the biggest ears. The last time I saw him I must have been eight. I never forgot him though. That's what family means, never forgetting. He doesn't remember me anymore, he only remembers her, because she's always been good that way, I've always been bad that way. I'm not really memorable, people forget me, and I understand. It's easy to forget me.<br />
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I fell in love a few months ago. I didn't even notice. I thought it was just an obsession, I was sure I couldn't love him because I love Peter, but I was wrong. I fell in love with him and he never cared. Dispensable.<br />
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The Paris fairytale is almost over, and I am so glad. This year has without a doubt been the hardest of my life. And the future scares the shit out of me.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-86888349935973294252012-04-12T00:56:00.001+02:002012-04-12T00:56:35.133+02:00?What do you think makes us love?Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-74694641887188500412012-03-25T23:42:00.000+02:002012-03-25T23:42:40.534+02:00Back on a dark note.I have no one who understands. I tried to tell my family, I spelt it out to them, and they didn't hear me. I used to read those stories about people telling their parents about their eating disorders and depression and their parents not believing them, and I took comfort in the fact that I knew that mine always would. But I got it all wrong. First I told my sister, she's always been my best friend.<br />
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I have panic attacks.<br />
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Nothing.<br />
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I think I have an anxiety disorder.<br />
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Nothing.<br />
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I think I need therapy.<br />
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Nothing.<br />
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Today I told my mum. I never thought she wouldn't understand because she is such a worrier. I always believed that she would do something, all I had to do was tell her.<br />
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I <i>know</i> I have an anxiety disorder, I say. I read out the list of symptoms to her and point out the ones I have. I explain to her the difference between sadness and depression, the inability to control yourself when you begin to panic. I say it all, but I'm talking to a wall.<br />
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We can't have you on drugs, is all she seems to say. They will make you gain weight.<br />
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The minute you said those words I gave up the fight. Because those words say everything to me. I have almost killed myself to make myself the perfect daughter you want, I have starved myself for months, I have thrown up food, I don't remember the last time I ate normally. I don't remember the last time I saw food as simple. There are scars on my body saying how I feel. But it was the same with them. The day you saw them and asked for an explanation, and I suppressing the horror of the truth coming out muttered some lie, you took it. You didn't ask me for more, you never cared to look over my body again. You dismissed it. And I thought mothers carried the truth in their gut, that they always knew when you were lying, that if they saw burns all over your wrists, they would understand that you're not okay, that they would try to save you, instead of not even seeing them. You looked straight at them and you didn't even recognize them. I accidentally leaned onto an ashtray, I say. How could you have believed me? How did you dare to believe me? My wrists say everything.<br />
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As I hear you worry about my weight and not about me, I feel my heart disintegrate. I don't know if you're the reason I stopped eating that day, but I sure as hell know that you didn't stop me. Other kids lie, go to great lengths to hide their hungry stomachs from their families, but I say it to you as it is. I'm fat and I won't eat, and you're okay with that. You've never asked me to stop. And now that I'm falling apart, now that I am literally no longer in control of anything, now that the panic attacks have settled in to stay, you remind me to watch my weight. All I hear is that I should give up my mind for the size of my jeans.<br />
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You don't know what an eating or an anxiety disorder is. You don't know what depression is either. So when I accidentally brush my scars past you, or when I say it clear and loud over the phone, you don't hear me. I don't know how much louder I can say this - these three things are killing me, yet you still don't see it as serious enough. As long as I lay off the cookies.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-59238298935527985952012-02-14T15:56:00.000+01:002012-02-14T15:56:22.713+01:00SorryI'm so sorry for having disappeared. To tell you the truth it's been a complicated few months. And I'm kind of spiraling further and further down into becoming a complete mess. I'll write soon.<br />
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ViSophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-54031332750021816452011-12-31T15:36:00.002+01:002012-01-03T04:19:27.323+01:00the next twelve monthsdear peter, i've never seen the sky more beautiful. i want to soar off this porch and glide into the horizon, evaporate into thin air, right where the blue meets the pink, right where you and i were once born. there's only a few hours left of the last twelve months. i haven't seen your face once, barely heard your voice, but i've loved you without hesitation through the falling snow, and the emerging summer, the blazing sun and the wild waves, and the devastating heartbreaks. i've loved you through all of this, i'll love you through all that is yet to happen. tonight you're a world away, but to me you are much closer than any of the people who are sat right by me here at the table. i wish you were here, or i wish i was there. i look at the heart shaped tree in my garden and i imagine that that's what my heart looks like. i am starved for you. my fingers are barely feeling. i wonder how the next twelve months will play with us, whether they will bring us together, or tear us further apart, but i pray that they will let us meet. i wish you everything. blinding beauty and sadness that teaches you how to love stronger, inspiring skylines and waves made of wise whispers. love, and snow, and raindrops, and breaking speed limits just to turn the breeze into the wind, so the letters your heart writes to those you love are sent faster. i know that i may not be the one you choose, and i know that we cannot choose who we love, but i also know that my heart will protect you forever. my fingers bleed for you, and all my words ache for your eyes. i write love letters to you even in my sleep. you're the reason i'm still breathing. you're the straw that doesn't kill me. i listen to the radio downstairs and to me those words are empty. the lyrics all profess a new year that will be happy and great but i never understood how twelve months that never happened can be glorified. i don't know why i've always found windowsills so comforting. i crawl up on them as if i were a cat and i stare into the sky, making out the distant lights as stars, and i blow wishes into the night. i wish the whole world was a metaphor, so i could find it endlessly beautiful and revealing, so it could feed me everyday, so i wouldn't be so afraid to live. i love feeling hidden, i love protecting myself from the outside world with curtains, or darkness, or closed doors, so i can dream. dreaming feeds me so much more than living does. i wear a promise on my finger, i believe that in a way it keeps you always by my heart, where i can guard you when you're sleeping. dear peter, i don't know what the next twelve months will bring, but i only hope they bring me to you. dear peter, please know that you are the most beautiful boy i have ever known, and that to me your every breathe is a story in itself. dear peter, may the next twelve months guard you with their wings.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-30219433947241300832011-12-09T22:38:00.002+01:002011-12-09T22:39:15.058+01:00The heartthe heart, it steers everything into motion. it sets of the most unbelievable triggers, it awakens. it tells me stories about love, about loss, about the chance of a future. its the most vital part of us, i really do believe in its existence. i believe there is so much beauty inside us, its buried right under your skin, and sometimes, in your weakest moment , it shines. i am not one to preach about romance, or God, or even the good and the bad inside us, but i believe in emotion. and i believe people are most beautiful when at their most vulnerable. they show something real, they involuntarily share something with you, their secrets. i believe that life is meant to be lived with the heart. i believe that the brain is there to remind us to be smart, but only when at our weakest. it isn't about being careful, or about setting up safety nets before you leap. it's about leaping without a single thought in your head, it's about letting yourself crash, about letting something destroy you. it's about letting everything in, letting love in, whether it be to a boy, or a girl, or even a passion, about not being afraid to break into pieces. it's about physically wanting someone, about the traces of your breath near your neck in cold weather, about glances at people you're too afraid to fall for, but fall for anyway. i think there's so much to life that so many people miss, it's like they live, and never figure out why. but whether it rises you to the moon, or whether it takes you down to dragon caves, just remember, rock bottom is a beautiful place to start.Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1324375317836893414.post-92006511705968420392011-12-09T22:19:00.000+01:002011-12-09T22:19:29.318+01:00The epiphanyIt suddenly hit me, what if nothing that I write is actually remarkable?Sophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07694922549167586183noreply@blogger.com0